How does a high responsibility Mom take care of 5 boys who have little interest in responsibility? #1: She goes crazy. She spends her every step trying to command them in “duties”—wash your hands, take off your shoes, put away your toys, make your bed, brush your teeth, stay on task! Thus,… Read more »
Son, I voted for you.
This morning before I left for the day I asked my 10-year-old son who I should vote for… R: “It’s your decision.” Me: “It’s your future.” Whether it is this election, future elections, future policies, current events, natural disasters, trial, tribulation, or persecution – the way we have modeled and taught our kids will… Read more »
Breakfast smoothies are a frequent in our house. Usually our blender makes enough for one boy let alone the whole army (joking.. kind of). Recently I was pouring “seconds” to one child I was reaching over the table stretching to pout the smoothie.. As I was pouring more smoothie into his cup… Read more »
bikes and boundaries
What is it about boys and bikes? It’s probably a symbol of freedom, maybe it’s the speed, I don’t know.. — recently a few of the boys were riding their bikes out in front of our house. Like good, responsible parents we have given them boundaries as to how far they can go on their… Read more »
a Father’s heart (music)
This album is 4 1/2 years coming… They are 4 songs for every stage of life – inspired by what I want my 5 sons to know. After some long processing (mostly in my head) but some of it in front of a whiteboard, journaling, Evernote, inviting feedback, and waiting on what the artwork would… Read more »
What is your favorite sound?
What is your favorite sound? I recently asked this – it was a topic of discussion for meals, texts, twitter, facebook and even our neighborhood. Some of the responses : thunder, an orchestra tuning before a concert, rain, various (specific) bird calls, silence (which I argue is not a sound), the net… Read more »
My dad on Earth and my Dad in Heaven
What I know about my father: He loves me. He listens. He HEARS. He spends time with me. He is caring. He provides. He is a giver. He doesn’t give up on me. He has a great laugh. He’s taught me how to love people. He is patient. He’s kind. He knows me. He asks… Read more »
crooked mow lines
I am confessing something here: it drives me nuts when my “mow lines” are not straight. There, I said it. I have a five-year old son who wants to be grown up for a handful of reasons but his primary reason is: he wants to mow the lawn. The last few times I have mowed… Read more »
a voice in the dark
There are certain moments as a dad that wreck you. If you’re a dad, you know what I mean. If you’re not a dad – you can glean from this as well… hang with me. Our youngest right now is not feeling well – he’s whiny, clingy, and emotional. That’s how he gets… Read more »
Parenting | Fatherhood
I’m on a mission. I want to encourage, unite, network and foster a setting where dad’s can talk about their “wins”, ask other dads for advise and pointers. If you’re a *dad and have the time (hahaha)… I’d love for you to join me! *if you’re not a dad, please email, or share this with someone who… Read more »
What do you like to hear?
What do you like to hear? We asked that question at supper tonight… It’s a question that has many layers.. ask a four-year old or a ninety-four year old and you’ll get vastly different answers. But… of the 4 rounds around our supper table tonight… no one answered : “I like to hear people yell… Read more »